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One of human needs as a social creature is a social environment. It is in this social environment that we can learn to shape our personality and at the same time we can assess someone's personality. Of course, there are various personality types in a social circle, the wider the social circle, the more personality types of other people we know.
There are various personality types of people who become friends, from friends who have a high level of solidarity to friends who have a selfish personality or are selfish and indifferent. Unfortunately, sometimes the owner does not realize this egoistic attitude.
In this post I want to share about the impact of selfish attitudes that we must avoid because this attitude is an attitude that is not liked by the social environment. A selfish attitude is an attitude found in a person's personality who wants to win alone, an attitude that is selfish, an attitude that finds it difficult to accept other people's opinions and an attitude that often blames others without correcting oneself. Therefore, come on, if this trait is found in our personality, it is best to avoid it and throw it away.
Why should selfish attitudes be avoided and even thrown away? What are the impacts if we continue to maintain a selfish attitude?
From several reading sources and experiences in social interactions, a selfish attitude that is maintained will have the following impacts:
A selfish attitude makes it difficult for a person to develop because he is anti-criticism and feels self-righteous.
Selfish attitudes lack sympathy and empathy. People who have a selfish attitude are less sensitive to society and therefore have difficulty adapting.
Selfishness always wants to feel like it comes first so it doesn't have patience.
Selfish attitudes are difficult to collaborate with so people will keep them away from the social environment.
Thank you to all friends who have stopped by my post. May we all avoid selfish attitudes that only care about ourselves.
Some people have chosen selfish behavior to be a personality, which is really wrong and it hurts the society , we should be sensitive about this and try to adjust in a way, thank you for this post and I hope it reaches many others .