It’s Not Just the Money

Standing in front of a mirror, stripped down to your most basic form, what would you see?

If the money in your bank account is all that defines you in your mind, then you are not getting it. Yes, wealth attracts women, but it's not sustainable. I have seen guys move around with gold diggers, complaining about being used, but they knew deep down. If you have nothing more to offer, then don't be surprised when all you get are women who want your cash.

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The reality is character counts.

I'm not just saying that. There are moments I thought money was the answer, but it's the moments when I stopped relying on it, that I actually built meaningful relationships. Women aren't stupid, if all you flash them is your wealth, they'll take advantage of it.

Human nature.

But when you invested in yourself, your mind, your body, your passions, suddenly the dynamic changes.

Nobody wants to listen to advice that self-improvement takes years.

They seek shortcuts. They sit, waiting for a miracle, scrolling through TikTok, hoping someone will drop some "secret sauce" to life, but there isn't any.

I was irresponsible, I made excuses, but none of that helped. It is the grind, the hard work, which has gotten me anywhere. That's why, when people lament about gold diggers, I shrug. You get what you give. If you are lazy, predictable, dependent upon money, well, you know what is waiting.