A piece of a young lady || Creative Nonfiction Writing Prompt.

I wish I could still be under my parents as a child so that I wouldn't have to worry about life or my future. I just want to eat, sleep and play around the environment with friends of my age. But as we grow, we realize there would be a time we would be left alone, to decide what our future will look like. Taking the steps to go away from your comfort zone and knowing whatever choice you make is all on you. I have learnt from so many experiences and would be sharing a little piece of myself and how living alone has shaped me in the best way. Truly, adulthood is a big stage in one's life.

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The alarm always rings at exactly 3:58 am. Hearing its sound makes me want to throw it away as a result of being pissed off that it woke me up when I should keep enjoying my sweet sleep, but I just hiss and would wish the night stays longer so I could enjoy being wrapped in my comfy bed without getting up. "I set the alarm myself, why do I complain then?" I wouldn't have a choice but to force myself out of the bed with one eye closed and the other opened. I felt I could just sleep more but the time is ticking and I have a lot to meet up according to my to-do list in my little diary.

Once I am fully awake and do not see that my eyes are giving way to another round of sleep, I would head straight to where my bottled water is which is always at the edge of my bed and would gulp it down my throat. I do my laundry when I have some clothes piled up in the basket and I quickly fetch water from the well. I don't miss it when it clocks at 5 am because if I do not step out to fetch from the well, I might not see water for the rest of the day. All thanks to the dry season because it's the time everyone keeps searching for water.

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I am someone who is always time conscious and would always work with time. I have the impression that when my time is wasted on unnecessary things, I am not being serious with my life.

Once it's 6 am, I pick up my Bible and Open Heavens devotional book then spend an hour quietly with God. Once it's 7 am, I switch on my laptop and start working till 10 am. Life as a single lady is always simple and less stressful because I do not need to think of preparing meals for anyone. I eat when I am hungry and at any time.

I believe spending the first 3 hours engaging on Hive is already a productive one for me. On days when I already prepared my post the previous night, I publish early, and on some other days, I do that after engaging for three hours. I multitask when preparing my post; sweeping the floor, lay my bed, brushing my teeth and taking my bath. I finish up my post after dressing up while the food is still cooking. Once my food is cooked, I eat my first meal and step outside to receive fresh air to prevent me from sleeping when I am supposed to do other things.

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One thing I believe in is spending and using my time in the best way so that by the end of the day, I would smile and tell myself "that was a good job today! Tomorrow, we move again". This is something I say to myself each night before I sleep, and on some other days I do not meet up with my daily goals, I squeeze my face and encourage myself to improve more.

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My days are always spent mostly on Hive, and when I needed to rest, I watch a movie or listen to music from my YouTube app or Spotify which helps me stay positive. I also take a nap too. Once I am awake or done with those, I go back to Hive to engage more. Hive is my home and I don't joke with it.

I also spend some time chatting with my friends online; on WhatsApp and most times on Discord. This is my way of showing I care and want to enjoy spending time with them. I don't stay too long because my mind is always on the next to-do list so I can finish up for the day.

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Once it's 4 - 5 pm, I eat my second meal and that is it for the day. My friends were kind of surprised at my eating at such an early hour for dinner. I eat quickly so that by the time it's 6 pm, no matter what I am doing at that moment, I leave it and stay outside to enjoy the fresh air for three hours. I believe this is the time I have for my neighbours in my hostel where we gist before calling it a day. One reason I don't want to stay indoors all day without speaking to anyone is so they don't tag me as being proud.

By 9 pm, I go back inside to continue engaging on Hive for an hour more. Then, I draft a new post to be posted the next day, that's if I am not too tired. I would say my little prayer and zoom into dreamland. I smile seeing how I have spent my day as an independent lady who is still living her life single.

I think it's the best for me at the moment as I wouldn't want anything to break my fragile heart and there wouldn't be any unnecessary misunderstanding. I just sleep knowing I have no problem while hoping for the next day to come and continue working hard in achieving my goals.

Thanks for your time on my blog.

This is my entry to the Inkwell's Nonfiction prompt

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Sometimes I also think to go back in my childhood times when I have nothing to worry or think about anything except how to play. But it's impossible and we just can remember those days.

You do a lot of thing in a day. In that case my day is quite simple compared to you. I just have to go to my tuition,university and remaining time I try to be active in hive if I am not in sleep 😂.

That´s great. The most important is to do what we feel is right so we don´t feel sad or bad not doing what we are supposed to do. Thank you, my friend.

You're not alone in this. Sometimes I feel like going back to being a child again, adulthood is not easy but we are already here so we will strive to make the best out of it.

Of course, we are there already and we have no choice but to dance to the tune it keeps binging each day. We just have to strive to make the best out of it. Thank you for your amazing comment.

You have a very beautiful routine, especially the writing part, keep it up!

Thank you very much.

Omoh. This is the life of a true Hiver. Like me. Omoh. I enjoyed reading this. It was like reading myself. You're focused and I smell the ambition. Keep it up dear!!!

Hehehee... true hiver indeed. Hive is like home where I meet beautiful people and I love to spend my time here too. Thanks for reading.

It was a pleasure

Time is precious and must be utilized maximally. You know, it becomes volatile if we are not able to use it properly. It could even become a waste.

I like how you schedule your time.

It could become a waste and this is why we should value every time and use it judiciously to our on benefit. Thank you for coming around.

Thank you 😊

A true hivian like you 😂🤭
Dedicated.... always showing up
Infact, I want to be like you oo 😂

And yes, staying with the neighbors in the evening is nice but it shouldn't be all the time oo , who cares what they think about u
Nne make ur money and give urself and ur unborn babies a good life. Being social is nice but don't go staying with them all the time

This life is a personal race ..lol

Ur day is no dulling atall
Full of activities 👍✅

Infact, I want to be like you oo 😂

I tried hard to compete with you but I couldn´t. Could you give me your secret 😄?

It seems I grab all you said in your comment. Getting too close to them might not allow me to focus on my goal which is right. Thank you for the sweet advice too.

I tried hard to compete with you but I couldn´t. Could you give me your secret 😄?

You are kidding right?
Lolz 😂

Kidding ke? I am not oo.. Lol

I wish to be like you, creating time for writing every day.

Well done @princessbusayo

I am used to it now and it seems to be part of my daily life and routine. Thanks for reading.

This is a productive day Princess, I will say keep it up.

Hah the alarm thing, I remember I use to look at my alarm sometimes as if we are quarreling but now my baby is my alarm he kept me up anytime he wishes and my eyes will be crystal clear. Adulthood is no joke.

There is no need for alarm when you are nursing a baby. He or she will definitely wake you up anytime. Lol
Adulthood is no joke at all but I believe God will see everyone through it.

Hahaha, God will surely see us through 🥰❤

Being goal driven makes our day to day lives vibrant with purpose. It is wonderful that Hive means so much in your life, and that your daily activities work in tandem with your larger vision here! Thank you for sharing this day in your life with us, and for your engagement with other members of the community.

It´s my peasure too. Thank you.

Wow. This is one very productive day. It's really inspiring to say the least.
Hive has become home to a lot of people so we spend most of our time there than anywhere.
It was really wonderful reading this.✨

Yes, Hive is home to everyone and we are enjoying it here more. Thank you for reading my story.

I want to be like you in the future, I do sleep late and walking up by 3:58 is impossible for me. If I force myself to wake up by that time, I can guarantee that I remain in that sleep mode for over an hour and it will affect my productivity during the day.

You be able to achieve everything I have seen here requires lots of discipline and being a very disciplined lady, these things would be easy for you.

Hahaha.. it is not easy waking up at that time but remembering things I need to do on time keeps me awake to do them and have time to rest later in the day. Thank you, George.

Lol 🤣 I even wish I can wake up as early as 3am like that but that's when sleep is just getting started for me
Even the 6am I always manage to wake up ni

But every Thursday I always sleep till whenever I want because there is environmental so I don't have to rush out for work

Fantastic... you sound very disciplined and organised, Princess 💗🙌 I hope you are getting enough sleep !LOLZ I shouldn't talk though... I burn the candle at both ends some days hehe... but I am enjoying my sleep when I can get it. Your day seems to have a nice balance to it though and feels well-paced. Sending !LUV and blessings xx

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I think this is a typical way of life a single person here on hive. Beautiful writing you have got here.

I love how you set your day and plan every moment. One has to be awake early to get many things done so as to prevent from rushing or being in a hurry.
I also understand that moment when you miss important messages because your son is always using your phone too. I hope you try to balance that up so you can have time to view those messages and read them.

Thank you very much for stopping by to read my story.