José Luis is my oldest nephew, when he was born I was 07 years old chronologically, it was great for me at that age to be an aunt.
Since his birth I felt a great love for him, as we grew up we became very close friends; as adults we shared many things together, such as: going to the beach, to night clubs to dance, to different restaurants to eat (he was always a glutton and that is why he is overweight).
Then I got married and years later he also got married, his marriage failed because of his wife's insecurity, she always questioned him because she said he was unfaithful (nothing further from the truth) loved his wife.
One day they had an argument and he left the house and the first thing he did was to call me and tell me "Tia, Endrina threw me out of the house, I'm looking for you and we are going to the beach for the weekend? Do you want to? I immediately said yes, (my husband was traveling), I grabbed my two daughters and we went looking for an older niece to stay with the girls at night, while we went to the hotel disco to enjoy ourselves.
Truly I have never met a more good and faithful man than Jose Luis, however as he is so affectionate and has a smile that makes you fall in love, the wife threw him out definitely and they divorced, he suffered a lot and I also suffered from seeing him suffer, but time passed and he got over it.
Years later he met another woman (I didn't particularly like her) there was something about her that made me distrust. But he fell in love and they got married.
Immediately they planned to have a baby, years went by and the wife did not get pregnant at all, they both underwent the pertinent tests and the one with the problem was my nephew (he did not tell anyone about it, only me).
A year later the wife announced to the family that she was expecting my nephew José Luis' child, I was very upset with that news, since I was convinced that my nephew could not have children.
He was very happy with the news, one day I took him to my house to talk to him alone. He told me: "Aunt, the miracle happened, I was able to impregnate my wife".
I was totally incredulous, I shouted at him: "Don't be a bastard, boy, that child is not yours, you got the horns". (excuse the bad word, but just as I said it).
In his face he projected a hatred that made me very sad, I had never felt that feeling of contempt from my nephew towards me From that very day our relationship ended, but never I could never share moments with him, the child was born, (which does not resemble him even a little bit), but that marriage continues with that big lie, the whole family wonders why we separated, but that secret will remain between us.
Currently I greatly regret having confronted my nephew with that truth, since the woman got away with it, they are still together with that beautiful boy who is not to blame for anything and I am still very sad without being able to enjoy the love of my nephew, ¡I really miss him!
If I could take back the time, I take it back and keep quiet, he and I would still be happy with each other, but well I can't do it anymore.
I learned that no one should get involved in couples' problems, as we will always look like intruders.
So much for my participation in this initiative my dear friends, thank you for reading it. Happy and successful day to all.
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What, I mean, OMG. That's very hard. So your nephew accept the woman's kid to another man. But wait, what if it is really his kid? Dis the kid resemble the woman? Haha I've too many question. I hope soon, you two reconcile and be back to what you were before
There will always be the doubt my friend @ruffatotmeee , but I am convinced that biologically it is not his, of course he already recognized it and legally it is his son, the child does not even look like his mother, I imagine he will be just like his dad, hahaha. I laugh to keep from crying, thanks for your good comment.
Hola amiga, no te preocupes algún día todo saldrá a la luz, no hay nada oculto que sea manifiesto, no te preocupes cuando el pase su decepción volverá y le pedirá perdón, así que ánimo saca lo positivo de lo malo. Bendiciones
Hi dear @nara61 , it will be so, although I am almost sure that my nephew reached an agreement with the wife and accepted those horns to be able to have the baby and keep that marriage, the child is an angel. Thanks for commenting.
There are a lot of confusion in their relationship but one thing that is making me amazed they are happy despite knowing the real truth.
Let them be happy and don't blame yourself for telling your nephew the truth because you wanted and still want to see him happy.
That's right, they are happy and now with that baby much more, I think my nephew agreed with what his wife did and now I am the witch of the game, what do you think, hahaha. Thanks for your comment my girl.
You are not a witch, you just tried your best to reveal the truth for the sake of your nephew in order to make his life more simple and happy.
You did nothing wrong, you just played the character of a well wisher in a great way but if they are happy with the truth then let them be happy and don't blame yourself for that.
If I were in your place then I would do the same.
Have a great week.😊✨
Some persons are better of not knowing the truth.
You'll relatively be at ease with them.
Hi @redna, I think my nephew is playing crazy, that he knows the truth, but well, I don't care anymore, may they be happy forever with their beautiful son, he already recognized him and legally he is his father. I just stayed away so as not to be a bone of contention. Thank you for commenting.
Your right..
Just give them space .
But with time I know they'll come around,your still family 🤗
It's a shame if that happened, I would keep quiet and do some DNA testing to match it with the evidence.
Lies have short legs, that truth will come out at any moment.
Even if time passes he should understand your concern and not have broken the bond between you.
Hi @isgledysduarte , completely agree with you, but I know he broke our bond because he knows what the wife did and accepted it so he could stay in that marriage. Otherwise the wife would have thrown him out. Thank you for your comment.
It is better to think that your nephew is happy and you will feel better about what you said.
Yes my dear @lisrl26 , that makes me feel good, to think that he is happy with his wife and son. But I don't stop feeling bad about what I said to him, although I know that's just between me and him. Thanks for commenting.
WOW, Tibisay (@tibilopez), I have never lived something like this, it must be distressing.
I say this because one always wants to protect their own and light their way with the truth but there are those who do not want to see the light and continue in happiness full of shadows.
A sad experience, the truth should not bring distancing, rather it should be consolidation.
Surely time will help and the time will come to talk, of course, that will not take them to how they were before, but things will be clarified.
There is no one worse blind than a person in love.
That's how it is my dear friend @germanandradeg, I was really distressed at the time, I am now convinced that these are things of the two of them, I think it was an agreement to have that child as it was, so the horns favor my nephew, hahaha, I can laugh to keep from crying, keep them happy and I will continue as far away as I can. Just as you say, "there is no one worse blind than a person in love" Thank you very much for your comment, have a nice evening.
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