ya I know it's not easy.
Sometimes parents make difficult decisions in life to try to provide better for their children
I don't know about this one. My dad choosing to stay in Malaysia was questionable; I wouldn't consider this trying to provide better for me or my brother.
We will have to see when you get to those moments of deciding important things, what will you do? We don't know that. No one can.
I can't predict the future but I would do my best to make things work out. If it's out of my control then so be it.
Think that there are people who have parents who stay together, don't divorce but have toxic relationships that affect their children's psychology.
Yes I feel this is equally as bad as not having a family or having divorced parents. Nothing can be done about that. Can only do what we can do right. Only we can mitigate the issue by not doing the same but what others do we cant do much about it
Behind a decision there is a why. I guess. But it's in the past. It's complicated. I understand your point of view.
Look, let me share a bit about my experience. My mom had a job in Havana, but she had to travel 60km every day. To follow my dad, she moved to a village where, through my dad's job, they were given the chance to have an apartment.
That job my mom had and left would have given her international trips and possibly, over time, a place to live in Havana, like all her colleagues have today. She chose to go with my dad. Maybe if she hadn't gone with him, they would have gotten a divorce.
When I look back, I think that maybe today they would have better living conditions and not blackouts all day like they’re having now. Maybe we wouldn’t even be living in this country, where the situation is awful. Well… I also think we can’t really know what reality we would have had because we didn’t live it.
I can't blame them for what they did; I have to take care of myself. That's what I believe.
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hmm it's hard to say. so you could have better living conditions but a divorced family maybe?
I don't know I feel like living conditions that can be improved. There are people that start of homeless in life but they get through it all and have a good life after. I feel the family thing is a bit hard to repair once you divorce. That's something more permanent where as living condition I think is more temporary as you can work to change that.
Ya you can't blame them. I don't blame mine either. It's their life but I would just saying how it affected my life haha.