Real date- Ideal date| Weekend commitment #160

Real date/ Ideal date

Greetings Hive community! Weekends and dating can be two highly combinable themes. The dating theme is posted by "galenkp for Weekend Engagement #160.

Venezuelan context of what a date means

In Venezuela it is rare to hear someone who will have a date in a love sense, you can hear a date to go to the doctor or for important documents, but in love plans, it is given in this way.

If a man wants to ask me out, he directly tells me a place, the most common is the movies or to eat, and when someone invites you to that it is given to understand that the intention is more than being friends. And if it is as friends, they also usually say "let's go to the movies, as friends".

Dating

When I read the proposed topics about whether I have asked a person out on a date, no, I have not asked anyone out because I would be too embarrassed to be told no, so I prefer not to. I currently have a partner, so I can invite him, I don't know if that counts, (I don't think so), but even if it does, if he ever tells me no, it would be less embarrassing, but with an unknown person, a friend, someone I like, in a supposed case, definitely not.

Regarding the ideal date, which was the topic with which I wanted to share this post, in the statement it said that you had to draw or paint how would be the ideal date, that discouraged me because I have no gifts for that, I draw and paint terrible, so I thought of another way, which was to make an outline.

I also thought of making a comparison between my real dates, my ideal date that can become real and the ideal date that is difficult to become real.

In all three cases my baby, my partner and myself are involved.

Real dates

Today I live with my partner and my baby, and I don't have a caregiver, if we go out somewhere, then she is included in the dates.

I will post a picture of a date we had about 2 months ago or so.

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In the picture I posted is him, Asami which is my baby and me.

It is in a mall that is close to where we live and we like to frequent. That day we went out for pizza, we enjoyed it a lot. We had a nice time talking and Asami was very entertained with the person who brought us the pizza, every time she saw her she made a little sound as if calling her and the person returned the gesture. Afterwards we ate an ice cream, we were delighted with the ice cream because where we bought it there was no line and it was quite good. We arrived home early. The outing was pleasant, as a family.

Real dates are actually like that, because as I mentioned before I have no one to take care of my baby, dates are with family and not as a couple.

Ideal date (close to something possible)

This date if I would like it to be as a couple, we would go to the movies because it is a place where I could not go with my baby at the moment. In theaters between the loud sounds of movies, people screaming, laughing, crying, among others, my baby could cry and I would have to leave the room to calm her down. It's not a good idea to have a place like this with a small baby.

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That's why I think this place would be ideal, to watch a romantic or action movie, preferably one that you already have an idea of what it would be, that is, a movie that you long to see.

After the movie, we could eat, he would eat sushi and I would eat pizza, because I don't like sushi. We could talk about the movie and take advantage of that moment as a couple.

About my baby, it would be important to be able to leave her with someone I trust so that when I go out I can be calm, knowing that she is well taken care of.

Ideal date (unlikely)

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A place I would like to visit is the Eiffel Tower, it seems to me that it would be the ideal setting for a date. I would like it to be with my family because I can't imagine being in a place like that, without my daughter. I would like it to be in a café, the three of us, drinking coffee and eating cake. If that happens it would be a spectacular date with people I love.

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First and last Photos of my property

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I used to dream about going on a date near the Eiffel tower as well. Anyways, I hope you do find the time in the future to have a date with just your partner, its different when its just you two and without the baby to worry about. You get to connect with him not as a father but your significant half, a man and a lover. And that is what makes your connection even more stronger, don't you think?

Solía ​​soñar con tener una cita cerca de la torre Eiffel también. De todos modos, espero que encuentres tiempo en el futuro para tener una cita solo con tu pareja, es diferente cuando solo ustedes dos y sin el bebé de qué preocuparse. Puedes conectarte con él no como un padre, sino como tu mitad importante, un hombre y un amante. Y eso es lo que hace que tu conexión sea aún más fuerte, ¿no crees?

Greetings! The Eiffel Tower is easily associated with romanticism, many of us have that dream of being there :)

Sure, it takes couple moments to connect with the other person, I hope we will be given the opportunity soon.

Thanks for commenting 💕