Greetings friends of Hive and dear weekend community ✨.

This week I would like to talk to you about what I think it would take to live my best life, and although one of the elements creates some conflict for me, not placing it would be wanting to deny a reality. These three elements are love, health and economic stability.

Love is a fundamental part of life, it is an engine that allows us to do things in the best way, that drives us, that makes us feel good, that is related to happiness.

I can't imagine a life without being able to feel love, I think it would lose its meaning because how would I create emotional bonds with other people? Something that means a lot to me.

Definitely for me to be able to have the ability to feel love is an important part of having a great life, that ideal life. I like this element because I feel like I have it in my real life, and that's why it would be a must in that better life.

I have many examples of love, I have my baby who I love with all my heart, my partner, my family; love for what I like to do, love for myself. When love is present, it is in everything we do and how we relate to each other.

A life without health would be a constant survival. 5 years ago also in September, I was in a hospital, a moment where my health and my life depended on doctors, although I got over that stage medically, I always have in mind how hard it is to be in a hospital and depend on someone else to take care of your health. I had some pictures of how my arms looked like after so many IV shots and I deleted them some time ago wanting to forget that.

At times like this I value my health, being present with energy and will, being able to say I will do something and do it, is priceless.

In my best life I would like to maintain good health, being aware that it also depends on me, my diet and my lifestyle, which I feel that I have in my real life, just like love.

The previous points have something in common, both I feel that I have them and that if I had a better life I would include them in it.

Economic stability is the point that I feel is the element that breaks with the harmony of the two previous ones. And at this point I would like to tell you why I felt conflicted in including it, how is my economic stability at the moment, and how would I like it to be in my better life?

I had the belief that wanting to have money made me a vain, insensitive, self-serving, overbearing person with no humility. I think I know where this belief came from and it is that politically here in Venezuela it was said that "being rich is bad". It may also be because talking about money can be related to the cardinal sin of greed, although I am not a very religious person, culturally it is something that has weight.

In short, because of backgrounds like these, I thought that wanting to have money would make me a bad person, with time I have learned that this concept is extremely wrong, that money does not make you a bad person.

That having money helps in many ways in life. From the most basic such as food, health, having a place to live, education (books, notebooks, uniform, ticket) to the next level such as fulfilling dreams like traveling, enjoying a vacation, helping other people and / or causes that deserve it.

It is uncertain, unpredictable. It adjusts to the situation of the moment, and causes me uncertainty for tomorrow. It has been days where not having an economic stability affects me emotionally, it generates worry and wear, because I would like to do things that I consider necessary (to have my own house for example) and I know that it is something that requires time and effort, and while that happens I will continue to feel that feeling of uncertainty.

In my best life I would like economic stability to be present, to stop feeling that feeling of uncertainty and to be able to have my own home, to be able to go to the doctor when I need to without money being an impediment, to be able to help my family, to fulfill a dream I had as a child of having a shelter for stray animals, to travel and to know new places in Venezuela and other parts of the world...

My current life I consider that it has many elements of that better dreamed life, I value it very much, and those things that for now are only desires, I would like to bring them to reality to the extent of my possibilities, so that my real life, is my best life ❤️