I think we all get triggered by people and are overly judgemental at times - it's human nature. The trick is to realise you're doing it, and that's half the battle - and then look for understanding and compassion. I tell you waht, should have seen me rant at the dickhead woman who let her kids run wild in the reserve late last night and picked them up at 11 pm - where we found on our morning walk they'd been axing down a fucking tree. Boy was I judging her parenting skills. I haven't let it rest since. Some people just desrve the judgement imo.