WE90 : I am a strange woman according to my husband | what do you think

The picture above is just an illustration of a woman who appears as she is without make-up,The image source is here.

Every woman must often complain that it is not easy to be a woman, sometimes even men admit it, even we women will be angry if women are underestimated, because in fact many things are required of a woman that is not usually done by men.

I as a wife are always demanded by my husband to always look elegant and charming, but women are ordinary people who are also full of flaws, and have some strange things that are sometimes not very liked by men.

And today I will try to reveal it here according to the topic proposed by my friend @galenkp, I call him friend, even though I have never interacted and met him, but secretly I had visited this community several times and saw some very great topics, I think he is a great person who has many talents.

Well I will start answering the topic proposed by my friend @galenkp.

ONE : Name and describe some of your quirks, strange habits or personality traits.

Unlike most women who often cover up their shortcomings in front of many people, especially in front of their partners or their husbands, it's different with me, my husband has said several times that I am different from women in general.

Many women who dress up for a long time even spend a lot of time in front of the mirror to beautify them, but it's different with me, since I was a girl long ago until now I don't like to dress up, let alone wear make up, I'm afraid of that, sometimes my husband is annoyed with my attitude, when we are going out for a walk, I often get angry because my husband spends almost 15 minutes getting dressed and getting ready, I don't like that.

I prefer to appear as is, without lipstick on the lips, without powder or eye shadow, even I am annoyed to see some women wearing artificial eyelashes in their eyes, my husband thinks I am a strange woman.

I'm still me, a simple woman as it is, I just said to my husband, accept me as I am with all my shortcomings and oddities.

You know, if women don't like being asked for too much, if I'm not going anywhere at home, I even prefer to just wear a negligee even without underwear or bras, it seems amused for some women, I'm not worried if my breasts are saggy, the important thing is that I'm comfortable.

TWO: Other people's habits that I like I don't like and why.

I rarely interact with other women outside the house, especially other men, I don't like to gather together because in my opinion, when we gather together, we will make many mistakes, such as talking about other people's badness, gossiping, and many other things.

So I'm just going to say here that there are some habits of my husband that I don't like.

• I don't like my husband, who keeps himself busy at the coffee shop every day.
  Do you guys know out there, that women need to be cared for, pampered and flattered, even women want half of their husband's time to be spent on him lingering at home.

My husband often reasons that he only drinks coffee at a coffee shop, and doesn't go anywhere, according to him coffee is his favorite drink, and he can't live without coffee, finally I let him as long as he doesn't come home with the smell of cigarettes in his mouth, because I don't like the smell of cigarettes.

And you know, women want to always be placed number 1 in their husband's hearts, even women want to be named the first time when their husband wakes up, instead of being busy looking for his cellphone or glasses that he forgot to put where.

I only answered 2 topics out of the many topics proposed by my friend @galenkp, and I've asked my husband for permission to raise this post after it was read by my husband first.

I don't mean to disgrace my husband here, but I just want every man to accept his partner with all their flaws, because women need to be understood.