Thanks for sharing, I enjoyed reading your post! I kinda relate to you in that relaxation is my focus. I work hard to find relaxing/enjoyable things to spend more time doing- like learning guitar, working out, playing with the kids, cooking, painting, games, etc. I get high marks and bonuses at work, but it is a testament to my efficiency at work, not how many hours I put in. I never work more than 40, often getting everything required of me done in 30 or so, on average. Cheers to us for finding ways to prioritize what matters to our happiness! Happy Saturday!