Is a Soulmate Really Possible?

Many people believe that everyone has a soulmate, and u have much belief before that a person is destined to be their perfect match in life. Others are skeptical, saying it’s just a romantic idea that doesn’t always work out, i never understood this until i started experiencing relationship that eventually doesn't work out. So, is a soulmate really possible?.... From my experience i have decided it doesn't based on my recent happenings in my life.

My personal experience with my so called"Soulmates", the person I once believed was my soulmate. I once believed that I had found my soulmate, three times in fact. Each time, I thought, “This is it" and this is is the person meant for me.” But all the time, the person will eventually leave after getting what they have always wanted. They moved on, leaving me heartbroken. After going through this severally, I couldn’t help but question the whole idea of soulmates. If I really had a soulmate, why did they leave? And why did i believe in the idea if soulmate at first?..

The forth one happened recently after i felt sick and i told him how sick i was and i never got a response back and my visiting friends keep telling me that they saw him with another girl and all i was thinking was that, i thought he was going to be the one and this left me questioning myself whether i have been the problem or I'm just so unlucky. I still wonder how people move on after spending so much time with each other.

Do I Still Want A Soulmate?.... You might think that after being hurt severally, I would still long for a soulmate, someone who would stay forever. But the truth is, I no longer believe in it like I used to while growing up. I have had my heart broken when I least expected it, so the idea of a soulmate doesn’t feel as comforting as it once did. Though i know i will get married at some point in my life but that doesn't mean divorce can't happen but i would love not to experience such.

At the same time, I can’t completely let go of the belief that soulmate doesn't exist because my friends have found their soulmates, and I’ve even attended their weddings. They seem so happy, and seeing their joy gives me a tiny glimmer of hope. Maybe soulmates are real for some people, and if that’s the case, maybe, just maybe, I’ll find mine one day and probably the one that would stay with me through thick and thin. My parents are also example of soulmates and they have been together since their early twenties without any case of divorce.

So, is a soulmate really possible? It depends on who you ask. Some people, like me, have had their hearts broken and find it hard to believe. Others, like my friends, my parents, are living proof that soulmates might be real. In the end, we all have our own journeys, and if soulmates do exist, I hope to find mine someday and for now, I focus on living my life and being happy for the love others have found. Soulmate or not, what truly matters is how we find happiness within ourselves.

Thanks for reading ❣️😔