With concepts not everyone can win; just like in the real world. The issue with that is that many people think they deserve to win...Some probably do and some do not, of course. But the fact remains, *not everyone can, or will, win. So, the best thing to do is to find enjoyment in the act of being involved and knowing that, through doing so, others will see what you do, a little more of who you are and you put yourself in a position to gain through building better relationships.

I think you understand, so I merely write the above for anyone else who happens along and sees this comment.