Your support is enough. We have to go through this, and to be honest I wouldn't wish it on anyone else. You know, my wife went through it as a kid, when her father had non hodgkin lymphoma...She was 11 when he died. It's disappointing that she has to go through it again with her mum but cancer is often a part of life these days and so go through it we will. I'm sure , before the end, I'll write about it some more, as negative as that will be for others, but for me it helps order my thoughts. Thanks for your comment.