I appreciate your perspective. It is true that different individuals experience these situations differently but as regards 'sex on the first date', it's more about personal boundaries and comfort levels rather than following trends.
I might be regarded as old fashioned in my views because the fashion now is 'why not?' and old fashioned 'me' would say, 'no way!'. I have gone through two eras, the older and the newer and in a case like this one, I choose to stick with the older..... Abrazos my friend ❤️