Thanks so much @galenkp for not making me to think of what to write each weekend. You always comes up with excellent contest with different interesting topics. In this week 128 weekend-engagement, i chose topic number 4 which says if i accidentally founds out that the poeple i was adopted and, the poeple i called my parents are not my biological parents what will I do? How will it affect my life and will i search for my biological parents?? Hmmmm, what a shocking news it will be. Well, here 👇is what i will do.
What will I do?
Personally, each time I receive a shocking or unexpected massage, i used to lose strength for hours before i will regain it back. Sometimes, i will be pressed to the point of making use of the trest room immediately. So, coming to hear the greatest and shocking news of my life that i was adopted and the poeple i have always seen as my parents are not my biological parents. Oh my goodness!! It will really shock me to the marrow to the point that, i will be speechless for hours and and all my strengths will be drained away. I will need to take enough water in other to regain my strength before approaching my adopted parents. First thing i will do is to thank them for accommodating and treating me like their own child all these years.
After that, I will ask them what brought me to their home. And why have they been treating me like their biological child. Based on their response, I will know if my biological parents are still alive, or if i was picked from a motherless babies home. I will equally know if my biological parents purposely abandon me or it was under agreement for me to leave with them. All these things will help me to know what next steps to take.
How it will affect my life.
The truth still remains that, all these years of leaving together with these my step parents, i have developed strong bond and love for them. So, hearing that they are not my biological parents will breake my heart because it was as if the bond between us is breaking apart. I will cry uncontrollably. At the end, I will still move on with my life. What matters is am alive.
Will i search for my biological parents??
Oh yeah!! I will definitely look for them if they are alive to hear from them. If i have any reason to forgive them for their actions, i will. But,if they abandoned me with no tangible reason, it will cause more pains to my heart. And that ends my relationship with them. Though they gave birth to me, but abandoned me to die. While my step parents picked me up, gave me life and a future. I will thank them for letting me know who i am. But that won't break the bond between us. They are the parents i know. I will continue leaving my normal life with my parents though not biological parents.
We keep hearing new stories every day. Even though i should hear that i am an adopted child, so long as my step parents are treating me well, no shaking at all. I will continue my life with them. I know you dear friends will like my post. Please do justice to it by dropping your comments.
It's heartbreaking hearing such news truly💔... firstly it all depends on how they treat you and secondly, it depends if they love you so much. Getting those assurance would make me stick with them... I might not necessary look for my parents but I will have them in mind. There is no one who would hear such thing and not be distracted.
It's really heart braken my dear. Well it all depends how they treated me. That will determine some other things i will do
Nice post,@chichieze, it's a bad news, it's not an easy moment.to heard that you are adopted child. It takes God grace to endure it.
A very bad news indeed and hard to bear
I was very emotional while reading your post. You really capture the essence of the contest
Oh my goodness!! Thanks for reading my post dear
This post got emotional, it not actually good to hear this,I pray for God grace to follow you bro
my regards.
Thanks so much my friend. It's so emotional to hear that
In all what is important is that life was preseved and today you can make decisions on what to do. Life can never give us all that we want.
Once their is life, their is hope my dear sister.
Getting to hear such a news would be so disheartening, I can imagine what your facial expression would look like
Actually, our ability to receive such information and react is based on impulse
What a devastating news that'll be for anyone! A person who have become an adult say 20 years old and come to hear that the living husband and wife she's been living with as parents are not actually her parents but adoptive parents. It won't be a welcoming news. But if she's the appreciative type, she will buckle up her heart and continue her life with them.