So, the Oracle learned how to narrow questions down for the better. And man, geez, this sounds like a test! 🤣

Let me see:

Three important things in my life. First, learning; second, making mistakes; third, stepping aside.

It's not new to say I like learning about new stuff and how to do other things. If I would stay idle, my guess is I would go crazy. Maybe out of boredom, or anxiety. Perhaps, both. I like to keep my kuckleheady walnut busy. And I know know that I'll stop learning stuff when I die. But that remains yet to be seen

About the second, I remember girls at high school crying and crying like babies when they did something wrong. And I've met a lot of people who are fixed on being perfect when they aren't. Expectations make people believe they cannot get anything wrong. So they deny themselves the opportunity to learn from their mistakes. I make a lot of them daily. When I write, oh, my... I do like 20 drafts until the stuff is done. When learning to do something, well, the count goes up. But mistakes are the chance for iteration. And on each of these one can see the progress.

Now with the weird one. So, back in one of these activities someone mentioned the ability to let petty problems solve themselves. I like this and practice it daily. From Aikido I learned that confrontation happens when needed. And for most problems, you just need to step aside. This gives you the chance to keep moving or handle the problem from another angle. In life, it's also this ability to get off you world for a moment a watch it from the outside. It's a problem-solver thingy. Very useful and necessary.

Now I realize I didn't talk about people or material stuff, but I tend to go around groups and be around some people and then not. Material things, well, they are useful but don't own me.