I always say that I am not a person who gets angry or upset easily, something too serious must happen, rather the not good things that happen make me sad rather than angry. Although there are some things that happen in life that hit so hard that they can cause a lot of annoyance or their counterpart in immense happiness.
Of course this subject is purely subjective, it depends on how each person lives the things that happen inside them and no one can understand another because they don't have the same emotions or don't live it in the same way.
This year 2025 was an extremely intense year, because of the amount of things to solve that probably did not depend on me, but it had to be done anyway. Many events occurred, some unforeseen and out of my control, we could say they were of major cause and required a lot of action, strategy and patience from my family and me.
A tragedy struck my hometown, an unprecedented flood, in March of this year, and as a consequence many hidden truths were revealed about people we thought we knew. What bothered me most this year 2025 was betrayal, lying, concealment and decisiveness. Falsehood in people is something I can't stand and there was a person who as a good impostor pretended to be a person he was not, he hid facts from us that caused many losses. His evil attitude caused harm to me and my family, causing us not only that, but also great anguish.
We had to resort to exhaustive strategies, wait for time, have a lot of patience and make many consultations, seek advice, in short, a long way to go that through hard work and corresponding actions could end in a good ending.
But many times what was supposed to be a very bad thing can bring good and happy things. That same fact generated situations where I felt happy, happy to know that I have people I can trust, that even though they are far away, the bond of friendship is strong and sincere. My friend, my best friend, of whom I talk a lot, was the one who collaborated with another family member to solve these issues. But her attitude made me cry with joy on more than one occasion, her offers of help brought tears to my eyes, because in the midst of so many bad things that happened during those months, she was there, present and not only with words but with hard actions.
Out of all this came something much better, all the action wisely taken brought better results than we had before the natural catastrophe, as if it were a big jigsaw puzzle being put together, a very beautiful one.
Recently we also found out about something that we had never been told about and that affected us as a family, something that has no solution, a material theft that happened about three years ago. And what bothered me was the lack of honesty and communication, but the person who hid it from us passed away two years ago. I forgave him and let go of what happened.
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Having a friend like the one I have makes me immensely happy, I have few but reliable friends and she is my sister, we always say that we were separated at birth, even though she is older than me.
I think both what bothers me and what makes me happy with people's attitudes. But what made me most happy this year was having people who supported me and gave me words of encouragement and above all the fact that I found understanding from those people. Not everyone understands a situation and my friend and another person were there knowing what it is like, what it feels like. They were my happiness.
Nothing is all bad, you have to be able to see the light in these things, like the light in the dark tunnel. This year 2025 is behind us and I hope for a year with many positive consequences of everything that has happened. Thank you @galenkp for these thought-provoking weekend topics.
Thank you all for reading me today, I wish you a great weekend. See you soon.
Amonet.
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yeah i see where this goes the dissapointment is we didn't have coffee this year , the joy that maybe next year we will if i go to the hive meeting in spain . 😂😂
ok but serious live is full of challenges both positive and negative , i've seen to manny hospitals and funeral homes this year i can only hope next year will be a little bit less drama.
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Well I hope there is coffee!!!
Yes, the truth is that there are many difficult years, the two previous ones, family and friends passed away, it was hard. Life goes on and you have to go on. Take care of yourself! Hugs and thanks always!
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Good morning, dear friend @avdesing
Every person is a universe, and we rarely know them completely; betrayal is annoying, but it hurts and leaves a mark when the person who does it is someone we trusted.
I'm glad to know you have people you can trust and who will help things turn out better.
Have a wonderful weekend!
Such demonstrations of trust give me even more confidence and that loyalty is mutual. Thank you very much Luis!
Hello Amonet
I'm so sorry for your disappointment with people, and how sad it is to read that people you trusted have betrayed you. That's very painful.
It's wonderful that you have friends who love you and have supported you when you needed them most.
I hope you're having a beautiful afternoon.
Everything serves to learn in life, so it's OK... it was hard but now everything will be better!!! Thank you!!!
Good morning. To be able to see within the negative things that side which fits into the great puzzle, perfectly designed for us, is a true blessing. We did not come here to suffer. A hug.
Everything in life happens for a reason, time tells us what it is... time....
In life, there will always be unpleasant moments and complicated situations to resolve, but the good thing is that you have your friend (almost a sister) and other people who help you and make you smile. The humility and kindness of some people sometimes make us cry; that has happened to me too.
Let's keep moving forward with the best attitude. Happy holidays to you and your loved ones. I'm glad that everything finally turned out well.
Thank you very much for your comment, it's like that, I know who I have and the trust we have in each other. Now I can breathe easier. Thank you!
Friends are great 🤗
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Thank you!!!!🤗💗
Good trades @avdesing. In the darkness there are always rays of light, and they are also noticeable in a special way. I am very glad that after the setbacks of recent years, these rays of light have accompanied you at all times.
Without a doubt, true friends appear in bad times, and they are an opportunity to demonstrate our strengths.
I wish you a 2026 full of light, it's time.
A very big hug.
There is no evil that lasts 100 years hahaha good times will come, but sometimes those things to be solved appear. I'm on the right track! Thank you!!!
No, there are no evils that last 100 years, I am glad that you are going the way you have to go. 😊
So the saying goes... and I have proved it in life, whenever it rained it stopped, the important thing is to learn to dance in the rain. Thanks again!
Well, you are very good at dancing in the rain... Thanks to you for sharing good moments.
Thousands of years of experience... thousands of years!😆
Everything depends on how one take it. People sense of judgement are not the same
Exactly!! 💗