Hi @mhizerbee
Gosh rushing around because you didn't prepare for an appointment - this is one that I can't tolerate either, it drives me mad when other people do that...family members of mine were the ultimate procrastinators - until the last minute and then it was all chaos and mayhem so I can sympathize with you.
I was wondering why she doesn't see it...maybe she hasn't actually been exposed to any other way of maintaining her household? This may have been the only example she knows. I'm glad that you are showing her, but she needs to want to address these issues, otherwise you are going to frustrate yourself endlessly.
How could she possibly be around where she's not exposed to the way she can maintain her household? Is that even possible? What of school and other places she found herself?
Well, on the contrary, it could be true though. I just want her to do away with such lifestyle and habit.
I see what you're saying, but have you asked her? Maybe have an honest conversation about it and see if she (or you) can figure out what's at the bottom of it, there probably is a reason.
Well done on helping her though, I think it's so lovely that you are sticking with her even though it clearly does your head in.
I've been thinking on how to do that Sha though most times I play around with her about it. One of these days I should discuss that with her.