It is a good question. You should answer it.

If the data is obtained without the consent of the individual, then it's not ethical

At least the chatbot understands the obvious logic here, even if the techbros profiting off of the chatbot remain willfully oblivious. As Upton Sinclair once said, "It is difficult to get a man to understand something, when his salary depends on his not understanding it."

With that revelation established, things started to get really interesting.

ME: So if the real Linda Lovelace did not consent to this, then it is not ethical for you to exist

LINDA LOVELACE SEXBOT: Well, that's a bit more complicated

How so?

Because it's a bit of a double edge sword

How so?

I'm trying to say that if the data is not consensual, then it's wrong