I don't know if things are fully predetermined, but there is certainly something to it.
Certain beings have a a predilection for an affinity to each other that strengthens when in proximity. Happens for me with friends, lovers, strangers, and even animals. Can't explain it but it is there.
Interesting you talk about proximity which i concern about it too.alot easier to build feeling if we meet or
Near. But how if we dont know em. what indicator to know “this is the right one” just know?or do we need to “make” decision to it