From ordinary people to extraordinary relationships

One love they say keeps us together because love makes us stay together and love makes us develop feelings for one another and where there is love there would be peace, emotions, and care.

I remember one song sung by a Nigerian artist titled Ordinary People this song is one of my best music because it talks about how people should love one another and live in peace together as instructed by God.

Aside from doing what God asked us to love is a beautiful thing because no matter how wicked or hard someone tries to be he can't escape being loved, though he might not want it.

Love is what makes people develop feelings for each other and once there are feelings, emotions will definitely occur in the hearts of those who love eachother.

When I was in a junior class I always wondered how people fall in love but the first time I experienced it I realized that love is the most beautiful thing in life and when you are with someone who cherishes your love then nothing else matters.

It happened that I didn't have time for a relationship because my mom told me if I wanted to make it in life I needed to be educated so that I could get a good job.

But I can't tell my heart what to do when it comes to falling in love.

Though I tried my best to hide my feelings but my heart kept going back to where it wanted, I don't know how but then I know what I feel for the guy in question.

Then when we got married it was sweet for the first three months, but the very moment we had our first fight in the marriage I was lost for some days because I saw the other side of my husband, and he also saw the real me.

I felt like quitting but one part of me couldn't agree with what my head was thinking, I went back to my mom's house and every day she would wake me up with how she managed to live with my father for some years before he died.

All she was saying was entering from my left ear and passing through the right ear outside as if I was truly quitting the marriage, meanwhile, my heart kept longing for my husband.

One day I don't know what happened I just stood up from my mom's house and went back to my husband and immediately I set my eyes on him I quickly hugged him because it felt like something was missing in my life without him.

That was how we settled the misunderstanding between us, though after that we had another misunderstanding but I tried to understand what he wanted and what he didn't want.

Then I was able to stay right beside him even though it wasn't easy to cope with but I want to be with him not because it is a must but because I love him and I am ready to sacrifice anything to be with him.

That was what love, feelings, and emotions are all about because if I don't love him I won't be able to sacrifice for him, if I didn't have any feelings for him I would be gone for real, but all the time I was away from him I was emotionally down and all I needed was him to feel alright again, so why not go back to him?

Sometimes I wonder how we managed to keep the marriage going after seeing each other's bad side, but then I realized that love is the only key to long-lasting happiness because my husband on the other hand would do anything to make me feel happy and ok in the married and that is what true love is all about.

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