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Eventually, people find out (especially if those things are a matter of public record). What matters is strategic sharing of info: reveal only when needed. As with medical history, don't overshare; TMI can scare away people.

What no one knows, no one spoils. Just like that.

do you mean not even to my wife? ohh, maybe that's what I have been doing wrong lol 😅

Financial posession and status should always be kept secret.