Very hard to agree without specifics. People don't always know when they are making bad choices. And sometimes the consequences are much more severe than warranted.
The real question is, are you asking if you should have sympathy because you don't have sympathy and you think you should? Or is it because you do have sympathy and you think you shouldn't?
Usually depends how much you relate to the person and their circumstances
True and more reason why I asked because I feel it.
Very hard to agree without specifics. People don't always know when they are making bad choices. And sometimes the consequences are much more severe than warranted.
The real question is, are you asking if you should have sympathy because you don't have sympathy and you think you should? Or is it because you do have sympathy and you think you shouldn't?
because I do have sympathy and I think I shouldn't.
I sometimes can warn them over and over yet they still do it.
Ah, yeah, if they are making the same mistake over and over and not listening, it's hard to continue having sympathy.
Thanks for that.
You can have sympathy for their circumstances while still hoping they learn from it and do better in the future.