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Unfortunately, life is unfair. Everyone is about their life and struggles. So we owe it to ourselves to be the best we can and if we need help we seek it.
Easier said than done.

That's the only practical thing to do... I speak from experience too. This becomes a loop on how meserable one is, playing victim. However, as you said, we have to take charge of our lives & help ourselves. Doing oneself a favour I guess.