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We should care for one another , that is a really good attitude one should have but mind me caring too much and not know when to set back or stop should be evicted. Caring too much set you back, it weak you ,will damage you, you will get disappointed. People will always take that as an advantage ,they will surely take you for granted, should I say Humans are created that way? Bcos, 95% out of 100 will do that.
When they see you have a heart of Gold , they will treat you anyhow and not mind your feelings, they will be like, "she can't be angry","she is really understanding", "don't worry, He would forgive me and all sorts". When you care for someone , don't accept what you don't like just to show you care for them, show them boundaries, where there are no rules, there is no sin.
My father once told me that as a trained driver, if you are to get into an accident,maybe break failed or anything happened ,you have to make sure you save urself first even if you have passengers in the car, make sure you are able to safe urself first, not prioritizing other's lives on yours . He also made mention that in a situation where you have 5 people in ur car and 3 people happen to run into ur car and there are no ways you can drive to safe both the people in ur car and also the one who run into you then, you have hit the people who run into you to save the lives of the people in your car as well as yours.
You shouldn't lose your life trying to safe them, neither should you lose 5poeple for 3 people and that is actually fact . Our caring should have boundaries you have to be self centered sometimes as well or else you will be taking advantage of ,they will take you as a piece of cake.
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