Open source projects don't have to stay stagnant. They too can develop, question and mature but that does not happen by saying that "this is just the way it is". Web3 projects can and should be ambitious, constantly going forward or they are stepped on.
Of course we can allow different options but none of the options should lead the user straight down the cliff.
Yes they should but from where we are seeing, neither we can make it push through, nor we are coder ourselves to take things in our hands.