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i don't ever celebrate it. Personally think it is a stupid holiday that

For us, before my wife passed, it was an awesome time to bring family together. Have a celebration and have the whole family together.

i would say, you have to do it again. It is going to be hard for the whole family to have the "Christmas routine" changed. But it will be easier, if you all are there together for eachother.

I will see, at this moment in my grief I don't want to be, and cannot handle, being around family. If family is here, Karen is supposed to be here.

I get it. But maybe, that will be a good opportunity to overcome that feeling all together. But everything at it's own time. I get that.