Part 8/11:
The Real Risks and Rewards
The core debate hinges on whether men expressing vulnerability harm or help their romantic prospects. Justin Waller, a self-proclaimed masculinity guru, admitted that the only circumstances that bring him to tears are moments of joy for others—a confession that highlights how emotional expression is complex and deeply personal.
Many caution that encouraging men to cry easily, especially in front of women, might backfire if it leads to perceptions of weakness or insecurity. Conversely, suppressing emotion can be equally damaging, leading to emotional detachment, depression, and relationship dissatisfaction.