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This phrase—"invited to the cookout"—has become a cultural meme symbolizing social acceptance within Black communities. Critics argued that adults obsessing over whether they'll be "invited" to such social gatherings are indicative of a lack of confidence or some form of racial insecurity. The underlying anxiety appears to be: Am I racially accepted? The critics contend that such preoccupations reflect an internal, unhealthy drive rooted more in social validation than genuine moral concern.