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The narrative emphasizes that these feelings are normal and healthy. Allowing children to cry and express sadness is viewed as an essential part of processing such significant life changes. The act of saying goodbye—sometimes as hard as losing someone—can evoke feelings akin to being “kidnapped by aliens,” a metaphor for how disorienting and frightening unfamiliar environments and languages can be for children.

The Importance of Support and Love

Throughout the transcript, there's an underlying message about the importance of support, understanding, and love in adopting children with special needs. One speaker notes the value of knowing that the children had been loved well in their previous environment, emphasizing that love and care from many hands can make a meaningful difference.