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The core issue, according to the speaker, is that many women are not "qualified" – in other words, prepared or willing – to sustain a relationship, which fundamentally involves caring for and supporting another person. The notion of serving and being dedicated to someone else contrasts sharply with a culture that champions independence and self-reliance.
For relationships to thrive amid these modern standards, there must be mutual effort—compatibility, kindness, and a willingness to serve and be served. Without this, the speaker suggests, many are destined to remain lonely or unfulfilled.