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If she becomes defensive, denies your feelings, or tries to turn the conversation back onto herself, these are warning signs of a potentially toxic communication style. A positive response would include understanding and support rather than defensiveness. Dan emphasizes the importance of feeling safe to express oneself in a relationship. If a partner reacts negatively, it could indicate that she lacks the emotional maturity necessary for a lasting relationship.

Test 2: Evaluating Independence and Trust

The second test involves declaring your intention to do something on your own without her. Observing her reaction can reveal qualities related to neediness and control.