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Setting Vector Goals

The book also emphasizes setting "vector goals," which are controllable objectives that rely solely on your actions rather than external validation. For example, instead of aiming to land a job, focus on preparing for that job—enhancing skills and building your resume. Regardless of the outcome, you can feel accomplished about your efforts.

Navigating Social Situations

Social dynamics often evoke a struggle between the chimp and the human. The chimp instinctively aims to please everyone to maintain social harmony, which can often turn destructive. Establishing pre-set boundaries and knowing what you're willing to accept helps mitigate this dilemma. It's vital for the chimp to learn to say "no" when necessary and to communicate its limits.