I admire Mike's candour and respect his opinion, but legacy is important in my opinion and it boils down to this:

Be a nice considerare person to everyone. Show respect fo everybody. Give people the benefit of the doubt.

Don't hold grudges.

Then, when you are gone you'll be remembered as an honest, decent, sound person by all that know you.

I think you have certainly left a legacy here on Hive @tarazkp, I would say as much as or likely more than anyone else. When I read your posts, I always learn something about you, and you often dig deep and give honest opinions. I reckon some day your little one will treasure these writings.