Being reliant scares me, which is probably my biggest fear if I ever get old to the point I can't take care of myself in the home, because then I have to rely on others to do it. - this fear I guess is relatable for any active person . This vividly reminds me of my late granny , she was so active in her hay days and always prayed for a peaceful death rather than having any illness or ailment of the old age that might deter her from being active or dependent on anyone .