What do we need to have a healthy living, as human beings? The answer to the question might be diversity, but here one thing is very common which is the basic human needs. After fulfilling the needs you can look around and demand something new which may cooperate to fulfil the other desires, right? As human beings numerous numbers of emotions and feelings we store in ourselves, naturally.
When you look up something to acquire and get the specific thing, you get happiness for a while and I'm pretty sure that does not last for so long, you again look up another thing which you seem that gives you a permanent pleasure of happiness though it's a bitter truth nothing on the planet is permanent, everything is replaceable and sooner or later it get replaced.
Just like you dream of someone to be your life partner and you seem, in every sphere of your life you both hold each other's hand so tightly that nothing or not a single doubt on any matter can harm in your relationship. In your dream everything you seem so simple on the contrary in real life here comes a vast variety of situations to deal with. After dealing with plenty numbers of situations you might choose a path which you ever thought of.
A few days earlier, I got a phone call to have a discussion with a group of the friends whom I have not known for so long though the bonding with the guys is so solid than some of my friends from childhood. The guys have mostly well-known to each other for so long, even though they know each other's secrets are never revealed anywhere.
While a guy gets upset for any reason each one of the group tries to find out why the face of the guy is so faded. No matter how much a guy tries to hide his internal toxic feeling it had to be revealed to the guys and they made an appropriate outcome of the emotions so that the guy can feel a bit relaxed or judge whether the path is right or not.
The day was as usual, everybody was enjoying their evening time except a guy seated in a place where crowds were less. Suddenly, at the time of chit-chat, someone noticed the other guy was not responding to their fun stuff activities rather the guy's face seemed a bit blissful. When someone asked, anything wrong happened with you? He did not hesitate for long to tell the exact situation of his mind.
His first words were, "She (her beloved wife) wanted to be free and I did not force her to let her whole life settle with me though it was a tough decision from my side." while delivering the words his eyes were full of tears though he tried so hard to hide, it started dropping like there no forces can stop that.
Believe me, it was their love marriage before getting married to the girl, the other guys of the group resisted him not to do what he had done because they felt the girl could not match with their friend. During the time I did not know anyone of them and did not have the any notion of their existence. After having a spine operation the doctor cut down a nerve accidentally and after then he could not walk with his right leg properly and numerous times he was being asked that are you never be able to walk like a normal man?
He replied every time God knows better. He felt now everything was not going as he predicted or as like the past. He is still doing his Bachelor's in Management & before ending the academic life, his marital life ended. Now, he is very crystal clear in his vision.
When you provide more priority to your emotion it ultimately harms you from enjoying the journey of healthy living.