Amor Fati

By considering every moment, no matter how challenging, as something to be welcomed rather than avoided, you will be able to make the most of whatever transpires. To not just accept it, but to embrace it and love it and to benefit from it in order for all of those hardships and trials to feed your full potential, much like oxygen does for a fire. We are all left with embracing whatever occurs to us and facing it with ceaseless hopefulness and determination after we accept what happens to us and realize that certain things—particularly undesirable things—are undeniably beyond our control. We will only focus our efforts, feelings, and energies on the things where they will truly make a difference. This is what we should do. Whatever situations that comes our way, we have to put up with this and do something that makes negative into positive.

It is a practice of tolerance and embracing everything that has happened, is happening, and is yet to happen. We have to understand that this situation is beyond to what we have expected and these things are not our control. We cannot control what the world may give us. We cannot control the people that surround us. We cannot control the turn of events. The universe is beyond our control. Change is the only thing we can be sure that will happen, because the only constant in life is Change.

Every day, change is the only thing that is giving me hope. Change is where I grow. But then, when negative change happens and it filed up, we want this to change. Our capacity to regulate that fear of change turns into a phobia, especially metathesiophobia, when it becomes unreasonable. A metathesiophobe feels they have no control over their lives due to constant change. A Metathesiophobe feels they have no control over their lives due to constant change. As an adult, we feel that almost every day. The feeling that we don’t have no control over our lives. That there is a constant change in our lives. Even the weather is changing, even the mood of our bosses and our workmates changes. But we know we cannot control them. How heavy it feels when you can’t do nothing about it? When you see someone sad but you can’t make them happy. When you see someone having a hard time but there’s nothing you can do because like you, you are struggling to help yourself as well.

When you want to help someone financially but you don’t have even a penny to offer. We have so many things and situations we want to change. We have so many things that doesn’t go as the way I planned. And if things don’t go as planned we feel like we failed. We failed as a person, as a lover, as a friend and as a human being. This is how hard living is without accepting what fate has serve as. “Love of one’s fate”, accept that everything has a reason. Things happens because it was necessary and what deems to happen. Take every day as a gift of pate and perceive it positively, beautiful maybe.

I have come to realize that it is how I handle the changes and the difficulties how my life goes. I have to be resilient and adapt what fate brought me. That I can only wish for something else to happen, but God gave you that situation for a purpose and it’s up to you to make that purpose positive. All of the circumstances that happened were needed for you to be here right now. I am not here to write if it wasn’t for every challenge that has come before me. Fate brought me in this with God’s grace. In this way, I have learned to love fate.