You're not just a good door breaker. But it turns out that he is also a motivator for others who are still worried and afraid when they are in front of a door.
I have had some experiences, what I didn't have at first was that I could barely accept rejection.
Whenever there is a refusal I always try to stay away from a door and just let my partner break it down, I'm only limited to showing which door has the potential to be broken.
When I finally realized that what was behind the door was about something I was thinking. If I think that behind the door is failure and rejection, then I will be rejected. But, if I think I'm going to be successful and there's Pandora's box, then there's that box. What's behind the door is what's on our minds.
I note the odds are always around 75%, for it to be something we think it is. Another 25% is a match between what they need and what we can afford.
Rejection is a difficult one to accept sometimes, but it's part of life and the sooner we accept that it happens the sooner we can built ways to deal with it.
I never try and preempt what may lie behind a door; sure, I have some idea as not having an idea would be stupid, but I never set expectations, I mean in business or personal, prior to opening the door, stepping forward towards opportunity. The key to that is to know what to do, how to react, once the door is open and depending upon what one finds. Does that make sense?
Yes I see.
You said it in a very reasonable sentence. you got it in more than 35 years and you share it with us all here. really a thing.
Let me take your sentence for me to quote as a quote and I will share it with others in my environment and hopefully help them too.
It's nice to share thoughts with others as we can all learn something new and benefit from it.