Wow... I can barely imagine living through a childhood like that. Your Mom was a very wise woman.
I also can't imagine a full grown adult calling others vile names. Many times I believe it is because they are insecure and have never learned to deal with their own hurts. Imagine running out of intelligent things to say to the point that name calling is the only option you can think of.
Thank goodness that even if someone calls us something, that doesn't mean that is what we are. That we know that is what counts.
I enjoyed your story of the purple thread.
She had her own experiences and I guess that helps shaped her as mine did me. I was lucky to have the upbringing I did, not perfect of course, but one that equipped me well for my life.
Indeed, and with this individual I mention in this post I'd say that's exactly the case. Of course, I doubt he would say these things with such alacrity to my face...I'd give him some more hurts to move along with. Lol.
Thanks for your comment and nice words, I appreciate it.