She had her own experiences and I guess that helps shaped her as mine did me. I was lucky to have the upbringing I did, not perfect of course, but one that equipped me well for my life.

Many times I believe it is because they are insecure and have never learned to deal with their own hurts.

Indeed, and with this individual I mention in this post I'd say that's exactly the case. Of course, I doubt he would say these things with such alacrity to my face...I'd give him some more hurts to move along with. Lol.

Thanks for your comment and nice words, I appreciate it.