I'm not sure what that chaps problem is, I try to avoid seeing him much because he whined and complains and things, feels he is the victim, but chooses to take no responsibility for himself, thoughts, attitudes and actions. It's always someone else's fault when, in reality, it's not; it's his. On the occasions I see him I keep it as brief as I can which works for me; I can get back to my vibrant and colourful life, and he can get back to his dull and lifeless one. Everyone is happy.

Lol, tattoos are a good example of how life progresses; I've seen some very bad choices made in that regard. I have tattoos but am lucky to have put some forethought into it.