People can zap or sap those around them with their thoughts, attitudes and actions. I try to do the former and, in so doing, I feel my life is a little more engaging.

I've buried people, my mother and father among them. Unfortunately I didn't have the option to have things pre-prepared for mum due to her stubbornness and the speed if her demise, but with my dad the whole situation was strategically planned and paid for ahead of time. It was a much easier and time.

I have my own affairs in order, my funeral paid for also. It's a private one, no announcements, ceremonies or anything. I don't like a fuss made over me and so it feels right. I feel happy knowing I'll not leave someone the burden of having to see to it at a time they may be greiving. People can celebrate my life, or my death, however they wish, I'll not be there. I'll be in Valhalla, or haunting someone. Lol.

I get the impression you're one who seeks the best in life, in big or small moments, and that you seek to do it a little better each day. It's a good way to be as it delivers a more fulfilled life. I'm the same.