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Yes, it is quite challenging and can go against our natural inclination. I think we are often taught to listen to respond and not hear, a lot of importance is put on time and instant responses that it is hard to truly listen to hear. I think people genuinely think they are helping but may not be! Thank you so much for the comment.

You are right. We are taught to listen to respond.

I have a friend who is the best listener. I'm in awe of her and everyone from toddlers to surly teens to lonely old people loves her. She has been a good example for me to try to follow.

That is great, we could all use a good friend like that.