BEING A TTC (TRYING TO CONCEIVE) MOM FOR YEARS

The joy of every married woman is to give birth and have her children who will call her mummy. To some women, it happens so fast after their marriage while some encounter delays in childbearing. At times, this delay lingers so much and brings bitterness to the heart of the couple. Some women spend all their life savings looking for solutions so they can be called a mother. Some visit places they ought not to visit with their clear eyes but then, out of frustration, their minds are clouded and so they listen to so much advice at the same time and give in to wrong ones which might eventually leave them in regrets.

Many TTC moms also visit the hospitals for solutions and became lucky after a series of treatments by the Gynecologist while for some women, Gyno doesn't seem to find out what the problem is after some diagnosis. I see how many awaiting mothers are feeling depressed, sad, in pain, and anxious on a high level but then, I can't help but pray and encourage them. Giving them hope that the God who visited me with children is still alive and will visit them too.

So yesterday, I visited one of my friends who was a **TTC mom" for some years. God has remembered her and her pink jet arrived three weeks ago🥰🥰

The feeling of being a mother after years of waiting has been extraordinary. She carries her bundle of joy with so much admiration and smiles and couldn't stop sharing her delivery experience with me as a first-time mum she is and what made her stay so long in the hospital 🥰🥰🤩

The wait is over, it ended in praise but then I reminded her how much she complained in those days of her waiting, how much she felt rejected by God and felt unloved by God as well. I know it's not easy to be in such situations. I know how badly and hurt an awaiting mum can feel but then, there is hope for all. This woman here, in her days of waiting, she seek for medical advice, we prayed together on several occasions and I encouraged her to wait and be patient even when she voices out some terrible words, hahaha. I can relate. However, I am grateful to God for coming through for her.

Of course, I shopped for the ever-awaited princess to welcome her to her world😄

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My one-year-old baby accompanied me for the visit but then, he couldn't stop dragging me to carry him instead of the new baby. I see lots of jealousy in him and he couldn't stop crying and dragging me🤩. Children are such an amazing gift and having them around brings so much joy to every mother.

There are so many TTC moms out there, some are my close relatives and some are my friends. Perhaps some in this amazing #motherhood community, however, I want to encourage everyone to keep the faith and be positive. Sincerely, my kneels are always on the ground in prayers for you all and I pray that God will put smiles on your faces soon.

Thanks for reading and for visiting my blog.
Please note: All pictures are mine and with the permission of the new mom

Remember to keep staying positive and be happy 😊 💖🧡💞