My thoughts as a child.
Growing up as a child, i keep wondering how our parents gave birth to us. Out of curiosity, i asked some of my playmates did they know how their mother gave birth to them?? I got an answer from one of them that it was through the anus haha, sounds funny indeed. So, I decided to as my mom because I can't believe that a full human being will come out from the anus. So that faithful day, i decided to ask my late mom how did she gave birth to me. She told me that when i grow up, i will understand. But that answer confused me more. I was kind of, does it mean I need to grow up in other to understand this?? When will I even become an adult?. That kept on bothering me until I entered high school.
I got the answer during my high school days.
In the high school. I got an answer to the question that has been eating me up for many years. Our biology teacher made it clear that it's only when a woman had relations with a woman that she will conceive and the baby comes out through the woman's vagina. Oh my God!! I asked the teacher, how would that be possible because a woman vagina is too small for a baby to come out from it. He tried to put me clear that God made it to be elastic or flexible during child birth and after that, it heals and stick's back immediately. Though i was convinced that God can do a miraculous work like that, but wasn't still satisfied.
My dreams comes through.
On September 2015 when i had sex with my ex husband, I convinced that same month. Woaooah, I was thinking of many things on my head which includes the following.
Let me see how i will give birth to my baby through the vagina.
Are my really becoming a mother?
Will i be able to make it
Etc.
On 10th of April 2016, my dreams came through. On Saturday night before Sunday morning which happens to be the 10th of April 2016, i couldn't sleep due to labour. Though i didn't know that it was labour till the following day when I visited the midwife. She asked my ex to get my things ready that my baby is looking for a way to come out.
I was given some injections and drip when I was passing through had labour and the midwife and her nurses took me to the labour ward. Infact before then, I have taken everything out from my body. On getting to the ward, I was placed on the coach and asked to push. I didn't really know how to do it. So, the midwife directed me on what to do which I deed and immediately, i heard a cry of my baby girl. Woaooah, she really came out from my vagina. A dream comes through.
My baby girl at the age of 6 today
Today am no longer worried about how a baby comes out from woman body. But a mother. If have such experience like me please comment below. I will be happy to read from you.
Many times mothers do not know how to respond to a question like the one you asked, for example my grandmother would have answered me like your mother did or if she had explained something to me it would have been a very dry answer, but my mother is different, she explained and still does because she has always been a faithful believer that there are things that must be known first at home, she even prepared me for when I got my first period. A hug and greetings from Venezuela
Woaooah, that's great. Am happy for the kind of mother you have. Hugs from Nigeria my dear friend
That's shows that what God can not do does not exist. I thought about that too until I had my first issue. Now when I see a pregnant woman especially those one that have not concived before, I usually give her a word of consoletion, that she can make it.
Some mothers do think that it is not yet time to talk about sex with their children. The want them to be if age not knowing that it can be dangerous. As long as they are in school, they have friends and teachers who can either help them or decieved them
Being a mother is a very special part for all women when you grow up to the level of being a mother, @chichieze i love the question you used to asked when you did not rich age of a mother, I thank God you have come to know, keep it up
Thanks so much my friend. It's good to ask questions in other to learn. Thanks so much for visiting my post
There's joy to be a mother because every women need and you were right asking to know how you were born because you didn't grow up to the level knowing about that. I can see you are now very happy as a mother
The joy of been a mother often overwhelm the worries of where the baby will come out from at last. But is this statement really true