At a point in time, we must have felt a moment of downside, discouragement, and a sense of low self-esteem. Yeah, everybody has and nobody would say: I had always felt good and high always.
Our discussion today is on the topic: Self Limiting Beliefs. For me, this is a very interesting discussion topic as it is common to everyone. So what's is Self limiting Beliefs.
Self Limiting Beliefs are beliefs that limits us from growing and developing.
This beliefs hold us from bringing a major change to our life situations. Mostly, this is as a result of low self esteem. The following are 3 common self limiting beliefs that affects our lives.
1. I AM NO GOOD ENOUGH: As a result of low self esteem, we begin to create this belief within of not being good to be up to standard. This beliefs goes as far as thinking of not being good enough for a person, or opportunity. A moment of truth here, I had always felt this feeling of not being good enough for anybody that's why I haven't really had any relationships.
2. I DON'T HAVE TIME: Time is an important factor for growth and learning process, if one keeps saying the word "I don't have time", it limits one from actually seeing the free available.
3. I AM NO GOOD AS: Most times we get discouraged when we see others doing better than us. This feeling seeing our friends better makes one feel not capable and choose not to try again as a result tend to create the belief of not being good enough.
CAUSES OF SELF LIMITING BELIEFS
Our beliefs are so strong that it affects our lives and when we keep saying something negative, it becomes what we say it is. The following are causes of having self limiting beliefs.
1. FEAR: Fear is a major cause of this beliefs, and low self esteem. This fear affects in so many ways and the can include.
- Fear of rejection
- Fear of taking risks
- Fear of failure
2. LAZINESS: Most people know they can but to lazy to therefore changes their words to I CAN'T. Being too lazy also result to not having time, that's when you will hear I DON'T HAVE TIME, then after you ask what they are doing with all the time, you won't find anything meaningful.
3. TOO NEGATIVE/PESSIMISTIC: When one is too negative in thoughts and the way they speak, they begin to build limiting beliefs not only for themselves but to others around them.
4. SOCIETAL/CULTURAL BELIEFS: Most times what the society or cultural backgrounds says do have influence in our own way or reasons and beliefs.
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Saludos @starstrings01 excelente publicaciones. Te agradezco que visites mi blog es muy gratificante. Espero activarme pronto y estar más activa en Hive
Gracias.. Me di cuenta de que no has estado activo, así que decidí revisarte y dejar algunos votos.
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Aiit, I will
Thank you @starstrings01, for sharing meaningful, high-value content that would help our personal and professional growth, if we dare to break with self-limiting beliefs. Glad I read your post on Day 19 of the 30 DAY BLOGGING CHALLENGE. Success in the next challenges. Blessings.
Wow. I'm glad you came by my blog. This is something I always appreciate.. Wish you success also..
Thanks brother. Blessings for your life and family.
Wow.. Thanks so much 😊😊