Everything that happens "outside of us" is neutral.We have no control over situations, reactions, acts or any event coming from outside. We can only work, with great care, discipline and love, on our inner self. As our priority is to pay enough attention to ourselves, to that same extent, we will build, store or strengthen the mental tools to be able to react adequately to the hostile outside, without allowing ourselves to damage or disturb our tranquility and inner peace.