Message to the my fellow young men at large"before you say I do"

About going to bed and just have need
and essence of writing this important write up as a means of self remembrance and to my fellow young men out there.
One thing to know about ladies is that they can so misunderstood many times, in the sense that they might just be in a casual friendship with you. But there's a possibility that a guy or the boy in this case might be thinking or already the lady as his maybe girlfriend or wife to be without him properly approaching the girl.

Come to think of it or how do you have say consigning this, that there is it's almost not possible for a guy to get married to his fellow age mate probably in the same level in the university or college, there's is high probability that a young man in the university l, his wife might still be in her Early secondary school level.
What do you have to say about this aspect of life.