I have known since childhood that time and current do not wait for anyone. That is, nothing can be more valuable than time. But in the real world, lumbering elephants are exposed by the aggression of speeding midgets. If he is supposed to be present at ten o'clock in the morning, he is seldom seen before ten-thirty or eleven o'clock.
There is an unwritten rule in our society that the main way to prove oneself valuable or more important to others is to make him wait. The longer a person waits, the more likely he is to increase his own value. On the other hand, doing the work of time in a timely manner is like making oneself small to others, and also making oneself small to oneself.
A job I have to do at five in the afternoon? I can do that if I want to But why? I do not have a prestige! I'll talk about six o'clock at five o'clock. At six o'clock I will say seven o'clock. In this way I will turn someone around as much as possible. At the end of the day, it looks like I have done a great job of showing generosity.
I've hated this waiting thing since I was a kid. Because I have a lot of bad experiences with waiting. Once I got home from school on my own rickshaw, my mother hit me hard. But none of my parents tried to understand that I went home alone that day not to disobey or disobey them. As a response to the long wait.
I had to wait at least one and a half to two hours every day after school. Some days maybe other friends would stay for some time, I would play with them. But most of the time I was in class one-two and I had to wait for one and a half to two hours in the afternoon, when he would come to pick me up. And the funny thing is, I've never seen anyone flinch about it. No one has ever understood or even tried to understand the fact that for a young boy, the class from dawn to dusk is a time of intense physical and mental torture, standing alone on the street.
On the plus side, it eliminates unhealthy sugary foods from one's diet. I always make sure that no one ever waits for me. So if I am supposed to be somewhere at ten o'clock, I must get up early in the morning, and get ready and leave the house at a time when, even if there is a traffic jam or no vehicle is available, so that I can walk to my destination in time. . That is, from my point of view there should be no negligence in saving time.
But sadly, I don't usually see attempts to say the same thing from the other side. What's more, I might go somewhere at half past nine to make an appointment at ten o'clock, and the other person misses the ten o'clock deadline and arrives at ten o'clock. I have to wait for exactly one hour. But here too, one hour is merely an example. I have fond memories of standing on the side of the road in Dhaka city and waiting for someone for three or four hours.
Again, not only do we have to wait for hours, but we also often have to wait day after day. Maybe someone gave me a job, I have to do it in two days. I gave him the job in a day, maybe not two days. This time he must also keep his word. Giving feedback or making payments within the time promised. But so far I have found very few people who keep talking, day after day, and in some cases months after months.
In fact, not keeping one's word, keeping someone waiting unnecessarily, and not acknowledging that the work is too bad - these are all part of our race as a nation. It is true that we memorized the composition 'Value of Time' as a child, but we did not learn to put it into practice in life, we did not realize how important it is to maintain the commitment of time.