HER

in Freewriters7 months ago (edited)

You know what's crazy?
Putting my life on a hold for someone who clearly didn't love me but used me as a rebound.

We always talk about red flags and all but then at that time, i was blinded by the enormous love i was willing to give that i didn't see the fact that i was being manipulated.

Now this is what i didn't see.

Someone who loves you won't make you put your life on a hold for his selfish reasons. He/She would rather grow with you and explore life together with you than do it alone.

This is what i missed.

When he came back eventually, i didn't open up those warm arms again, i just stayed from a distance but then i almost messed up by not seeing too quickly that when they come back, they do so because there's no one else for them to manipulate.
There's no one else who has taken their baggage and swallowed everything hook line and sinker like you've done so they seek you with the most believable facade.

Mhan!
I saw things that could have broken me into a thousand and one pieces but i chose happiness over it all.

I get to decide if someone should break me or not.
I get to call the shots concerning my life, peace and happiness.

So no, were not doing that BS here.

Ladies and gentlemen, HER.

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